Losing Wolfie

My lils were never ones to suck their thumbs, or to be soothed by pacifiers. Sometimes I wished they would use either – or both! They both developed very early attachments to special toys or other objects, and it was there that they found their comfort. For Woo, his first and best love was his blankie. For Goose it was her doll that was given to her at birth by my aunt and uncle. While both of these are the go to in times of distress, others have come to take significance in their lives over time. For Woo, right now, his little wolf that Santa delivered under the tree this year is *almost* on par with blankie for comfort and love.

Imagine our surprise when we noticed in the middle of last week that Wolfie was missing! We searched all the usual spots, all the unlikely spots, and even spots that Woo could not have reached or that Wolfie would not have fit into. He was really MISSING. While the lils and I were at the cottage on the weekend Willy tore the house apart (and then cleaned it up!!!), but no Wolfie. I got home and repeated the exercise, then got our wonderful, awesome daycare provider to do the same to her house, just in case Wolfie had snuck through the security fence. We have a pretty strict rule about taking loveys out of the house for exactly this reason, but there was a slim chance that he had been smuggled out. He wasn’t there either. We were stumped and declared him lost.

This was a particularly bad time for Wolfie to go MIA. We started our immunizations for the big move on the day after Wolfie was first reported missing. Woo was sad to go to the doctor with out him that morning, but decided that his Curious George could accompany he and blankie to the doctor. This surprised us but we went with it. All was fine until our Doc gave “immunizations” to the various loveys that the lils had brought to the appointment. Woo realized that Wolfie missed his needle and was distraught. I promised that we would find Wolfie in time for the next round of needles.

The second round happened yesterday. Willy and I both thought that appointment was on Friday, and hadn’t found or replaced Wolfie by Tuesday night when the calendar error was discovered. I knew I could replace Wolfie, as Woo and I had discovered his twin in a local mall one day. I just didn’t want to do that without talking it through with the lil man. Right before we were going to the appointment I had to explain that we were getting needles early, that Wolfie wasn’t around to get needles, and that I could get “another” Wolfie, but it would be too late for today’s needles. It did not go well. There were many pleas to go now or make the mall open. Much discussion ensued, and in the end his moose got the needle and I went shopping after work.

I presented the replacement at the end of the day. He was too soft, too fluffy, too big, too white (Wolfie needed a bath…), too not Wolfie. It made Woo more distraught, but I explained that Wolfie became how he was because Woo loved him and squeezed him so much. The new guy just needed some love. Woo decided that he was up for it, and they went skipping off together. I knew all was well when I tucked them in at night, and the new Wolfie was cuddled under his arm.

This morning I was changing the sheets on Woo’s bed when I noticed that the mattress was lumpy. I lifted the corner and found Wolfie. Of course. He was even flatter now, but he made a little boy’s day. They spent the day together, with Woo going over each little difference. He loves that he now has two Wolfie’s, and is excited for them to get their needles. I am kicking myself for replacing him when I did. We knew he would turn up eventually, just didn’t expect it would be the very day AFTER we replaced him!!


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15 Responses to Losing Wolfie

  1. Charlene @KillerMoleMom says:

    So glad you found Wolfie! I can completely relate. DD12 has a bunny that only leaves the house to go to her grandparent’s. She puts it in our safe when we go on vacation! It’s a worn-out Bunny, but she loves him!

  2. Jenn says:

    Aaawww! Awesome story! Chills even. And yes, of course it would be the same day. I’ll share a related tale with u another time.

  3. Sasha says:

    Of course that’s when he turned up! I don’t know, kinda makes it worth it, doesn’t it?

  4. I can’t believe he turned up after you bought a new one! LOL My daughter had a ‘doudou’ a little bunny that someone gave her… a very hard to find little rabbit….over the years we ended up searching online and buying 3 replacements….when a new one arrived we ‘loved’ it up…I actually poured ketchup on it once to reproduce some of the stains, I rubbed it on the brick outside to fuzz it up…and she still knew it wasn’t the same…didn’t smell right LOL 🙂

  5. Amy says:

    So, glad you found Wolfie, but it sounds like you managed the crisis just right. J is still missing his “Monster” who mysteriously disappeared months ago. Expecting to find it somewhere in the Christmas stuff.

  6. Capital Mom says:

    There is nothing like a lost friend. I’m glad he was found in the end.

  7. Tamara says:

    I have a teddy bear that is my best friend, been on trips and watched over me when I slept. Glad to read that Wolfie was found and came back to a twin!

  8. Alicia says:

    So cute! E has a blanket he can’t sleep without. Glad to hear that wolfie came back – it always seems to happen that way!

  9. Finola says:

    One of the best nuggets of parenting advice I ever got was to buy a second Woofie, or whatever lovey your child becomes attached to, before it goes missing. Then just keep rotating the two of them every few weeks so that they wear equally. Then at bedtime when the needed toy cannot be found, you can magically produce the back-up. The only trick is to make sure both are not out at the same time.

  10. Cindy says:

    Right before N started childcare, I picked up two additional doudous to rotate. It’s a green bear head attached to a fuzzy washcloth type thingy. (How’s that for specific?) One’s at childcare, one’s in his crib and the third resides in the top drawer of his dresser. The two new ones aren’t perfect yet; they’re still too clean. I’m sure it won’t take long for that to change!

    Glad Woo’s got his Wolfie’s!

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